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We've talked a lot about getting married during a pandemic, I mean we ourselves are a #COVIDCouple. But what if you're still in the planning phase?
Whether your original plan was to get married in 2021 or 2022, or you've now had to postpone and extend that planning phase, here are some helpful tips to remember.
๐๐ฐ๐ฏ'๐ต ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ค Easy to say, Hard to do. But, trust us, freaking out never helped anyone. If you need to go into full-on stress mode, do it - feel those feelings. But wait until you've gotten through that before sending a whirlwind of emails and making important decisions. Remember to keep breathing and make decisions from a calm mindset instead of a place of overwhelming doom.
๐๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐๐ณ๐ฆ There are some things that are out of your control. Perhaps a mask mandate is now in place or a ban on large gatherings. In many cases it won't be that black and white. Now is a good time to sit down and figure out what your deal breakers are. If only half of your guests can attend, are you comfortable moving forward? If your grandparents can't make it because of travel safety or health concerns, will that be a game changer for you?
๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ช๐ค๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ด ๐๐ข๐ณ๐ญ๐บ Don't avoid difficult conversations. If you're planning to move locations, postpone or cancel waiting to have those conversations won't change the outcome - it will only make logistics and possible solutions worse. So have these conversations early, even before the final decision is made. More often than not your vendors want to help you any way they can!
๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ฏ ๐๐ฏ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ช๐ค๐ฆ๐ด In the early months of COVID it was easy to think everything would go back to normal, but as time goes on it's becoming more and more clear that we may not be back to normal anytime soon. So try and think of whatever celebration you have as the real thing! Because it is! Even if you have another celebration later, this first celebration is still as real as it gets...because YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED! So don't forget to celebrate that love too!
Photo By: Light Burst Photography
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